You may think that it’s wrong to underfunction – but according to Murray Bowen, the psychologist who developed this distinction, there are some important lessons to learn from the sloths in your life.
Firstly overfunctioners have a higher propensity to BURN OUT!
It’s great to be highly productive, but not at the cost of your health, family and friendships.
FIVE tips an overfunctioner can learn from an underfunctioner:
- Step back and do less. This not only gives you a break but allows others to shine too
- Put your feet up for five minutes. Meditating for a small time each day, research suggests will keep your stress levels in check
- Check out the costs of being an achievement zealot. You may end up sacrificing other important elements of your life like friendship and fun
- Less is more. Sometimes you can over prepare and run yourself ragged getting everything just right. But you are so shattered, you cannot enjoy the fruits of your labour
- Lie in sometimes. Don’t stint on your shut eye. Sleep is good for us
Like most things, RELAXATION takes practice, but if you’re having a lot of trouble relaxing it’s a good idea to try out something like Mindfulness or yoga.
The yoga app, ‘the yoga studio’ is fantastic for home practice. Simple, varied and expert teaching. I can’t recommend it enough. After regularly doing half an hour a day – my shoulders have dropped at least an inch away from my ears, and my back has stopped aching!
For those of you wanting to increase the level of calm and appreciation in your life, come and join me in June for:
An introduction to Mindfulness – its aimed at leaders and managers but all welcome!
I’ve been practising mindfulness and meditation for 12 years and the benefits I’ve experienced are many – probably the most important one is summed up in the following Tibetan saying:
“To look for happiness outside of yourself is like waiting for the sun in a cave facing north”